Situation - You want to connect with the other person.
When someone wants to connect with the other person
it
can be made easier by following the suggestions on this page.
Plus you as the other person's friend; including a warning, hehe.
Connecting can be difficult, but we all have to do it.
Firstly, in this section, CHECK THE LEVELS BETWEEN YOURSELF AND THE OTHER PERSON!
It is best if both are on the same level. The further away the level, the worst it gets.
People who usually do not get along are usually from the polar-opposite levels - 1 up against 4; 4 up against 1.
Levels 2 and 3 tend to get along well and act as the bridge between the two polar (1 and 4) levels.
Level 1: Director, Results, Appraiser and Counselor.
Level 2: Specialist, Achiever, Practitioner and Objective Thinker.
Level 3: Developer, Inspirational, Persuader and Promoter.
Level 4: Investigator, Agent, Perfectionist, Enhancer.
Where are you today? Horizontal, Perpendicular or Level?
1. Can it be the Director - ESTJ?
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Practical, efficient and logical. Focussed organizer that likes things planned. Action oriented go-getter. Offset by: Thinks that people in the first world cannot be sad.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: Do it now. Because I said so and it's logical.
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: A steady and pretty reasonable vibe but who can be both nice or domineering.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Hard Charging.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: NOTICE: If I look annoyed, keep moving.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Responsibility.
Claim to be the backbone of society. They care most about fulfilling their responsibilities to their families, communities and the world at large. They want to create stability and order in the world so that people can live peacefully and productively. They have a strong sense of duty and are often attracted to jobs or roles that allow them to take charge and lead others. They hold themselves to high standards and expect the same from other people. 'That boss' who is loathed.
General Principles to follow: Connecting with the Director means taking the time to prove that you are trustworthy and authentic. This pattern does not spare time for anyone who has a hint of manipulative or dishonest energy. Trust can be established by making commitments and following through on them, being honest about your scruples and staying level-headed in the face of difficulty. If a deeper or stronger connection with a Director is desired, then get involved with their goals. Ask them about their hopes and see if there is a way to contribute! For example, if they are planning a garage sale, ask to put price tags on things. Often they bond with others through work projects or causes that serve their communities. But that does not mean that they do not also like to play. Many enjoy gathering with friends to watch sports events, do recreational activities or even just go out to a good restaurant.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Working on a task together.
π Meeting up for a meal or coffee together.
π Helping them with a practical task.
π Doing a recreational activity together (kayaking, fishing, Frisbee, etc,.).
π Going to a movie or concert together.
π Camping or have a bonfire together.
π Sharing practical tips to everyday problems together.
π Cooking or baking together.
π Supporting each other in a cause or community service.
π Asking their advice and listening respectfully to their thoughts.
π Competitive activities like games or sports.
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Dishonesty or manipulation.
π Disrupting their plans.
π Being late to planned events or meetings.
π Being emotionally hypersensitive.
π Bending things they say and taking them out of context.
π Being wishy-washy.
π Laziness or procrastination.
π Being passive-aggressive or giving the silent treatment instead of addressing problems directly.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π Driven to meet their goals and responsibilities each day.
π Loyal and hard-working, can painstakingly work through problems with a diligence that many
other patterns struggle to maintain.
π Possess a strong will to do well, but also practical enough to know that “practice
makes perfect.”
π If failure happens the first time tried, will not be surprised because aware that that is how
life typically goes. Not afraid to work at something, try and fail, then try again because
each time attempted, it will be getting closer to having it correct.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Director scores higher on Self-Acceptance on the California Psychological Inventory tool
in comparison with other MBTI types. This means that the Director tends to have a good
opinion of themselves, sees themselves as talented and personally attractive.
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Director should realize that they should work steadily towards their goals, create more than they consume and master
a skill that will make them valuable.
The Director as another person's friend:
π Blunt and no-nonsense.
π While that might intimidate some people, it is refreshing to many others.
π They tell it as it is and help people get their lives together.
π Compassion flows through their actions and honesty.
π Definitely not be one to sugarcoat, they are somebody who will set people straight when they are on the
wrong path and tell them when they are being illogical or inefficient.
π Will also be there to help in a hands-on way when someone is in a crisis.
The Director's biggest complaint from their partner:
π Controlling and / or bossy.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "Your feelings do not matter to me and your 'my way or the highway' attitude is off putting, at best."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, UNDERESTIMATE this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."
2. Can it be the Developer - ENTJ?
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Decisive, yet complex and thoughtful. Shows complex ideas that look into the future. Driven and enterprising; always on the go. Offset by: Is loud and forthright who thinks that they are quirky and loved.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: If you don't do what I say, you'll regret it.
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: A always in charge, direct, but plays cards very close to chest.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Commanding.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: Sorry, yesterday was the deadline for all complaints.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Individual Power.
Drive and strategic vision propel them to new heights of progress and potential. More than anything, they believe in the power of the individual to overcome insurmountable odds. There is always a way to succeed; no matter the external limits and dangers. They will go down swinging to protect individual freedoms and the right to pursue one’s ambitions, passions and dreams. With enough steeliness, determination and insight, they truly believe anything is possible and bullying others is part of the game.
General Principles to follow: Connecting with a Developer means cutting past a lot of the small-talk that other types need to get comfortable. They hate wasting time on pretense or chit-chat; they usually have a hundred things they need or want to do, so having something interesting to say or do is essential. They usually connect by sharing goals or ideas with others. Highly ambitious, they enjoy discussing their hopes and objectives and hearing about others’ hopes as well. They also enjoy probing the more abstract depths of life; is there an interesting new theory that you have discovered? Have you learned something new about the nature of the universe or the human mind? Bring these topics up! They are curious about the world and are drawn to intellectual topics of conversation. They often connect over activities and projects as well; particularly if those projects have to do with a shared value. Volunteering for a cause can be a great way to really get to know a Developer's heart.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Discuss your goals and objectives for the future.
π Watch a TED Talk together.
π Share life-changing thoughts from the books you have read or podcasts you have listened to recently.
π Play a strategy game together.
π Volunteer for a cause that is close to your hearts.
π Do something recreational and challenging (rock climbing, white-water rafting, or an
obstacle course, etc,.)
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Filling time with chit-chat or small-talk that has no real future purpose.
π Texting excessively about mundane things.
π Being emotionally needy or clingy.
π Being manipulative or dishonest.
π Not having shared values.
π Being disinterested in discussing theoretical or abstract topics.
π Being disinterested in personal growth or hard work.
π Complaining.
π Being lazy or undependable.
π Showing up late to a planned meeting.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π Dauntless and bold, gets a thrill from a challenge rather than shying away from one.
π Can easily cut past the noise of the world around (the bulltish) and come up with efficient solutions or
logical strategies.
π Unfraid to be assertive to go after what is wanted.
π Ambition and varied interests keep them invested in what life has to offer.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Developer, according to neuroscience expert Dario Nardi, uses their brain in energy-efficient ways,
relying on primarily on seeing measurable elements, hearing words and making decisions. This helps the Developer
to be active in many hours of the day and make quick decisions on-the-go with plausible and logical explanations.
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Developer should reslize that action is the key to the life they want. Rather than ruminating, complaining and making excuses,
they should take action even if they risk something. One step ahead is always better than being stuck.
The Developer as another person's friend:
π Brutally honest.
π Does not beat around the bush when talking sense to people and the more they care about someone the more they will try to
prove it through honesty and insight.
π They make sure that people do not make stupid mistakes, hurt themselves, or waste their time on fruitless ventures.
π Their insight into future implications and their logical way of thinking helps them to mentor people and propel them
towards growth and progress.
The Developer's biggest complaint from their partner:
π Too bossy or critical.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "You being extremely annoying and a bully sounds eminently possible to me."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, IGNORE this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."
3. Can it be the Results - ESTP?
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Energetic, spontaneous and intolerant. Doer and focusses energy on accomplishments. High energy, action oriented. Offset by: Does something then acts as if it did not happen after things went pear shaped.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: They told me not to; I'm going to do it.
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: Overly confident and truly wild at heart and pretty high key.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Spontaneous.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: WARNING: KEEP OUT! Trespassers will be violated.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Opportunities.
They are known as the daredevils of the 16 patterns, but there is more to their heart than a desire for thrills and excitement. They want to live in a world where there are no limits on what people can do or become. They believe that every person has the potential for greatness and should be given the opportunity to achieve it. Determined and dauntless, they will jump at any chance to challenge themselves or test their limits. They will also fight against rules or limits that diminish individual freedoms or restrict opportunities. Impulsive to the extreme.
General Principles to follow: Connecting with a Results means getting off the couch and actually doing something interactive. That could mean taking a walk or it could mean attending a concert! For the Results, life is meaningful when it is filled with interactivity and action. You will get to know them better when you do something with them rather than just talk at them. Discussion becomes easier when they have something to do with their hands – whether they are driving, playing a game or even cooking! Connect over fun experiences, daring challenges or intellectual exchanges of interesting facts and ideas.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Playing a game together (tabletop, card or video game).
π Going to an event together (concert, show, etc,.).
π Listening to each other’s favourite songs.
π Swapping jokes and have a good sense of humour.
π Cooking or baking something together (be willing to experiment instead of
strictly following a recipe!).
π Playing at an old-fashioned arcade.
π Doing something creative together.
π Learning how something works together.
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Phony or manipulative behaviour.
π Taking yourself too seriously.
π Not having a sense of humor.
π Being too sedentary.
π Being self-righteous or punitive.
π Being illogical or over-reactive emotionally.
π Being impractical.
π Being overbearing or pushy.
π Over-scheduling their time.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π Fascinated with all the opportunities and experiences around them.
π While certain patterns have tunnel vision and hyper-fixate on one thing, they are someone
who can point out several incredible experiences to be enjoyed in the immediate vicinity.
π Fun-loving and realistic and knows that it will do no good to dwell on failures or mistakes
of the past.
π Tries to keep their eyes firmly on the present and do what they can to optimize their own
and others’ experiences.
π Resilience and flexibility allows them to roll with the punches much more smoothly than many
other patterns can.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Results scored higher on Dominance on the California Psychological Inventory tool, in
comparison to other MBTI types. This means that the Results is typically more confident, assertive and
task-oriented than the average person.
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Results should realize the life is all about taking risks and seizing opportunity. If they are not living
on the edge, they are taking up too much space.
The Results as another person's friend:
π The go-to crisis solver in thei friend's group.
π Practical, quick-thinking and brave, nothing seems to rattle them.
π They will step into a make-or-break situation and crack jokes while they solve the problem – winking at anyone sexy
as you troubleshoot.
π They also know how to call people out when they are acting like jerks.
π They keep people grounded.
The Results' biggest complaint from their partner:
π Shallow or insensitive.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "You can kick. And hard."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, DOMINATE this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."
4. Can it be the Inspirational - ENTP?
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Outspoken, stimulating and alert. Yearns for debate and hates routine. Desires mental stimulation and challenge. Offset by: Usually tries to be funny but gets into trouble.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: I made a contraption to blow up the rule book.
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: A joker with a hidden sincere side and a mulititude of ideas.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Inventive.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: Oh shit, not you again.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Innovation.
They are always looking for new opportunities to learn and grow. They are excited by change, challenges and the promise and potential of the untrodden path. They want to be able to see the world from as many different perspectives as possible and they believe that this is the key to understanding it. Their thirst for knowledge drives them to search for new ways to improve themselves and the world around them. They are natural inventors and problem-solvers who can see potential in anything and debate it.
General Principles to follow: Connecting with an Inspirational means entering a brain space where there are no rules or limits to what can be explored. They enjoy debating theories, hypothesizing about possibilities or doing things that challenge them mentally. Through these intellectual exercises, they are able to then open up and discuss more personal matters over time. They want to feel connected to others and they enjoy warm and energetic interactions. Having a sense of humour, fun and possibility is crucial. People who are too uptight or focussed on doing things “by the book” can get on their nerves.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Playing a tabletop strategy game.
π Brainstorming ideas and possibilities.
π Taking a class together.
π Practicing a new skill together (archery, programming, even cooking!).
π Debating a controversial topic together (without fear of offense).
π Going to a comedy club together/doing something that will make you laugh.
π Putting together a puzzle and talking.
π Playing a video game together.
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Limiting their ability to brainstorm or think outside the box.
π Being narrow-minded or quick to judge.
π Being hypersensitive (too easy to offend).
π Being manipulative or dishonest.
π Not having a sense of humor.
π Having a “holier than thou” attitude.
π They are a douchebag and those two cretins and that jerk over there are my friends.
π Spending an inordinate amount of time explaining details that are insignificant in
the big picture.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π Never gives up because they have an enterprising, resourceful spirit that triumphs against unexpected
trials.
π As a dominant intuitive they believe that in the midst of chaos the most original and creative solutions
can be found.
π Enjoys a challenge and is not afraid to be outspoken and assertive in order to get what they want in
life.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Inspirational scored higher on Achievement via Independence than other patterns on the
California Psychological Inventory tool. This means that the Inspirational has a strong drive to do well
and take individual initiative. They show clear-thinking and work best when given freedom.
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Inspirational should realize that they should keep an open mind and approach life like a scientist.
Think, fail, learn. They should not be afraid of failure. That is where the real lessons lie. Realize that their
life is an experiment and they can live without fear or regret.
The Inspirational as another person's friend:
π The friend people can call when there is a challenge nobody else can seem to sort out for them.
π Their innovative, analytical mind has saved the day for their friends on countless occasions.
π They also know how to make people laugh when life seems hopeless – their random, offbeat sense of humour and
logical frame of mind can help people to feel less overwhelmed by their situation.
The Inspirational's biggest complaint from their partner:
π Argue simply for the sake of it or appear smarter than everyone else.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "You will win the argument put against you. I would find it extremely hard to trust you as you are sneaky."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, UNDERESTIMATE this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."
5. Can it be the Persuader - ENFJ?
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Responsible, empathetic, attuned and sociable. High potential through social inspirations. Seems friendly, engaging and visionary. Offset by: Tries to push their own, not negotiable, beliefs onto others through social networks and directly usually with interference and manipulation.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: I'll tell everyone about the rules very eloquently and manipulatively.
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: Will looks after you and interfere, promotes social causes, has a very sassy/fun/confident side.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Persuasive.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: There are no problems, only solutions.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Human Empathy and Understanding.
They will work tirelessly to forge understanding and unity in the world. They often see where two warring sides can agree and will do anything to dissolve damaging conflicts that are unnecessary and harmful. Idealistic and visionary, they believe they can make the world a better place by understanding people and helping them to see their commonalities. They believe that a world full of empathy and understanding is possible and will work tirelessly to make it a reality, interfering in others' lives to do so.
General Principles to follow: The Persuader connects with others through meaningful conversation and activities. For some, this means discussing topics like religion, psychology or ethics. For others, it means helping out in a soup kitchen or cleaning beaches and parks to make a positive impact on the world. The truth is, they want to share their insights with others and hear others’ insights and perspectives as well. They want to know the background reasons that people think and act in the ways that they do. They enjoy watching movies and discussing what was meaningful about the movie, or listening to songs and exploring why the song made them feel a certain way. That said, they also enjoy connecting over fun, light-hearted activities such as dancing, concerts or recreation. Mixing up a meaningful conversation with some fun, action-oriented activities keeps things exciting and interesting for them.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Listening to each other’s favourite songs.
π Watching movies and discussing them afterward.
π Going for long drives and talking.
π Playing a tabletop social game.
π Doing a fun sensory activity - dancing, going to a concert or cooking together.
π Making inspiration boards or mapping out goals together.
π Having vulnerable, raw, heart-to-heart conversations.
π Volunteering for a cause together.
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Manipulativeness or dishonesty.
π Judgmental behaviour.
π Disinterest in personal growth or in-depth discussion.
π Tactlessness or insensitivity.
π Hypersensitivity (getting too easily offended).
π Lack of shared values.
π Cold, secretive behaviour.
π Inability to see things from others’ perspectives.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π Creates dreams and ideas for the future and stops at nothing to achieve them.
π Takes their responsibilities to others seriously.
π Many times, will think of others when faced with dire situations.
π Knows that keeping their head up can inspire others to do the same when they
face unexpected challenges.
π Possesses the visionary spirit to see past present-day setbacks to possibilities
in the future.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Persuader scored higher on Social Presence on the California Psychological Inventory
tool, in comparison to other MBTI types. This means that the Persuader shows a tendency toward
self-assuredness, versatility, spontaneity and verbal fluency.
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Persuader should realize thet the meaning of life for them is to find their gift. Their purpose
of life is to give it away.
The Persuader as another person's friend:
π The confidante everyone wishes they had when life gets murky.
π They are a good listener, a comforting nurturer and they can see the potential in people that they struggle
to see in themselves.
π Their warm, insightful presence and gentle way of mentoring others helps people to achieve things they never thought possible.
The Persuader's biggest complaint from their partner:
π Clingy.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "You think that you are way more popular than you really are. I find your interfering in deciding what is best for me
undesirable in the extreme."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, ANTAGONIZE this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."
6. Can it be the Appraiser - ESFJ
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Loyal, kind and conscientious. Strives to be helpful with harmony. Has focus on relationships, connection and community. Offset by: Likes to conceal that they are, or have been, in the wrong.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: Rules are very nice; anyone want some home made cookies?
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: Keeps some social event running. Low-key scary they might switch.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Harmonizing.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: Come in, I'm awesome.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Community.
They will go down with the ship in order to protect the people they love. Helping out in their communities, giving time in service of their families, or just being there for other people are what they value most. They hate seeing other people suffering and will do their best to ease it or comfort others in any way possible. They have a deep need to belong to something bigger than themselves, no matter the cost. They are everyone's best friend.
General Principles to follow: Connecting with an Appraiser means sharing each other’s values or at least trying to understand them. It means remembering special occasions, respecting their traditions and making traditions of your own together. Creating meaningful routines and celebrations helps them to feel an ever-growing bond with you. This could be as simple as getting coffee together every Monday morning or as complex as forming a charity for a cause that lies close to your hearts. Mostly, they need to feel that their friends and relationships are there for them to discuss feelings and thoughts openly. Tactfulness, openness, friendliness and dependability are crucial.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Conversation over a meal or coffee.
π Texting and asking questions about their day (without being overbearing).
π Helping them with a practical task.
π Supporting each other in a cause or community service.
π Watching movies together.
π Listening to each other’s favourite songs.
π Playing a social tabletop game like Apples to Apples or Telestrations.
π Camping or having a bonfire together.
π Sharing practical tips and solutions to everyday problems.
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Being secretive or withholding.
π Being tactless or inconsiderate.
π Being late or disrespecting their time.
π Disrupting their plans.
π Taking them for granted.
π Showing little interest/concern for others.
π Being wishy-washy or moody.
π Being lazy or undependable.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π Has a natural sense of responsibility for your family, community, friends, or social
group.
π Often does not give up because they want to set a positive example for others.
π The vital thing to remember for them is to take time to process, rest and recharge even
when they have a lot to do.
π Tends to overwork themselves for others.
π With time and proper self-care, they are the kind of person who can persevere under
any hardship, especially if they are working in support of a cause or group of people they
believe in and care for.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Appraiser scores higher on Achievement via Conformance on the California Psychological Inventory
tool in comparison to other patterns. This means that the Appraiser has a strong desire to do well, enjoy working
in settings with clear definitions and expectations and are typically efficient and well-organized.
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Appraiser should realize that they should take care of the people they love. That is more
important than anything else in life.
The Appraiser as another person's friend:
π The nurturer in their group.
π When people come to their house, they are the one who makes sure they have a glass of water and a comfortable place to sit.
π When their friend is going through a break-up, they are the one who shows up with their favourite snacks and a listening ear for
all their heartbreak.
π They genuinely care about people and show it through practical help and advice.
The Appraiser's biggest complaint from their partner:
π Too gossipy or talkative or make others feel coddled or overwhelmed.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "Beware of pumpkin spice. You see yourself as so sweet. You can be great to be around."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, ABANDON this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."
7. Can it be the Promoter - ENFP?
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Imaginative, enthusiastic and confident. View life as full of possibilities. Charming, outgoing and full of life. Offset by: Weird people who are unreliable and annoying without realising it.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: I find it interesting why they would make that rule.
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: Fun, light and sweet, knows your potential, must try everything, unreliable.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Optimistic.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: I am already disturbed, please come in.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Power of Imagination.
If you try to trap them or limit them in any way, they will find some way to unshackle their mind and fight back with the power of imagination. They are driven to use their creativity and intuition to make a difference in the world. They want to find ways to help others and make the world a better place. Imagination gives them freedom, possibilities and the power to dream up new ways to evolve and experience life. No earthly thing can cage them when their imagination is allowed to be free. And no earthly thing can rely on them to finish things.
General Principles to follow: The Promoter connects through exploring ideas and possibilities with other individuals. To get to know them means to embark on a journey to vivid, hypothetical worlds where anything can happen. To connect, you have to be willing to imagine and think outside the box. You cannot connect if you are constantly trying to get off the train and run back to the world of the “known.” Anything that provides a sense of possibility will excite the Promoter. Brainstorming, reading a new book together, driving somewhere you have never been, making art; anything that sparks creativity and imagination is a hit. At the same time, being real and authentic is crucial. They are quick to sniff out any hint of pretense or manipulation. They need to be able to trust you before they can connect with you.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Listening to each other’s favourite songs.
π Watching movies or TV shows together and discussing them afterward.
π Reading together.
π Taking a road trip somewhere new.
π Going thrift store shopping to find weird, original, or forgotten treasures.
π Creating art together.
π Playing! Do laser tag, build an elaborate sandcastle or drive some go-karts!.
π Take a class together.
π Share bucket list ideas.
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Being closed-minded or judgmental.
π Managing their time for them.
π Being too nosy or meddling.
π Shutting down their ideas.
π Trying to make them behave a certain way.
π Being unwilling to experiment or try new things.
π Being inconsiderate or overly-critical.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π Never gives up because they nearly always see alternatives, possibilities and potential in the world.
π While other people might feel the walls are closing in on them, they can nearly always find a window
of opportunity.
π In the midst of the unexpected their best ideas and insights often come to light.
π Possesses the inner resolve and outer creativity to innovate in the midst of calamity.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Promoter scores higher on intellectual efficiency on the California Psychological Inventory
tool relative to other MBTI types. This means the Promoter shows an efficient use of intellectual abilities
and can stay on task and use resources wisely when others might give up.
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Promoter should realize that they should stay curious and question everything. Ask for what thay want
and live with the realization that when one door closes, another one always opens.
The Promoter as another person's friend:
π The friend’s biggest cheerleader.
π When they want to do something daring and challenging, whether it is asking out their crush or start a new business,
they make them feel confident and inspired.
π They support their friends in their wildest endeavours and encourage them to follow their hearts.
π They brainstorm with them, encourage them and listen without judgment.
The Promoter's biggest complaint from their partner:
π Flighty or scatterbrained; pursuing a million possibilities, most of which lack a solid foundation.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "They will randomly spray-paint something of yours. I would never rely on you to get anything done, ever. I also know that you can be 200% toxic."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, REIGN IN this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."
8. Can it be the Counselor - ESFP
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Outgoing, friendly and fun. Lover of life who adapts well. Fun loving, social, craves the centre of attention. Offset by: They will not stop talking about their interests.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: I think I'm going to do it, it'll be thrilling.
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: Makes things fun. Can talk too much. Very indiscriminate.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Generous.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: Back in five minutes. If I am not, just read this again.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Freedom.
The thrill of adventure and the joy of possibility are what they live for. They hate nothing more than rules that restrict individuality and confine the human spirit. Bureaucracies and corrupt governments are the sworn enemies. They will fight against any power structure that is persecuting or entrapping people with unjust rules or limits. They have a strong sense of fairness and will often stand up for the oppressed and underprivileged no matter what the cost although perhaps less intensely than some others. They believe in living life to the fullest and embracing every moment with passion and abandon. They are the party animal and can be very difficult to manage.
General Principles to follow: Connecting with the Counselor means allowing them to get to know you through shared experiences and adventures. Go to the beach, attend a concert, volunteer together or take a last-minute trip to somewhere new and exciting. They appreciate people who show them something new and live it up in the moment with them. They also bond with people over authentic, real, honest communication. Do not try to pretend to be anything you are not with a Counselor – they will usually know.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Sharing favourite music/songs together.
π Trying new, unusual restaurants.
π Playing social tabletop games together.
π Doing volunteer work together.
π Having a movie marathon together (complete with snacks).
π Doing something recreational (rock climbing, dancing, kayaking, etc,.).
π Driving around and talking while listening to music.
π Making pizzas together with your own unique/favourite toppings.
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Dishonesty/manipulation.
π Narrow-mindedness or quick judgments.
π Critical, harsh words.
π Making too many demands on their time.
π Overwhelming them with numerous texts/calls.
π Being unaware of what is relevant in a conversation.
π Expecting them to make commitments to things very quickly.
π Unwillingness to try new things.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π Realistic and energetic, they are someone who looks for the nugget of beauty and joy to be extracted
from every moment (even if it is something simple such as a sunrise or a simmering cup of coffee).
π Has a playful, fun-loving spirit and tries not to let the negatives of life bog them down
for too long.
π Knows that they do not have to look too far to find a rich experience waiting to be lived out in
their life.
π Likes to let go of past mistakes and re-focus energy on the present moment where they can do some
real good.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Counselor is quick to integrate body and sensory information and are "highly capable at physical,
concrete tasks, especially tactile and physical multitasking" according to neuroscience expert Dario Nardi.
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Coulselor should realize that they should grow rich when they seek new experiences, not material things.
The Counselor as another person's friend:
π The friend people go to when they need some hype and encouragement.
π Whenever their friend posts a selfie or tries out a new talent, they tell them how awesome they look and show support and
enthusiasm.
π They make them feel confident, important and bold.
The Counselor's biggest complaint from their partner:
π Shallow or flaky.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "They can be extremely petty. I know that you know where the party is."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, BELITTLE this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."
9. Can it be the Specialist - ISFP
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Kind, quiet and loyal. Easily conflicted if forced and uncomfortable. Mysterious but friendly; creative but grounded; the enigma. Offset by: Shy, yet energetic at random.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: Out here in the wilderness the rules don't apply, thanks.
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: Sensitive and wild. Artistic and practical. Struggles with verbal communication. Two faced.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Artistic.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: It is my room; my rules.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Authenticity.
Nothing is worse to them than being forced to be something they are not. They care more about the individual’s right to self-expression and honesty than they care about their own happiness. Sometimes being authentic means sitting with uncomfortable feelings. They will put up with a lot of pain if it means being true to themselves and the people they care about. In fact, feeling any sort of discomfort might drive them to be creative or inventive in order to change the situation for the better. Many are arty types.
General Principles to follow: Connection with the Specialist is forged during those quiet, trusting moments when there is no pressure to be “on” for anyone. When they can be truly themselves in the stillness and not have to pretend or meet any unsaid expectations. Connection also forms during intimate conversations, shared songs and experiences that make the heart race. For the Specialist, hours of chit-chat are rarely where the connection happens. Sharing a playlist, driving beneath the stars or being creative with someone will always have more impact. Even more, doing something that aligns with one of their deeply-held values will create a bond.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Listening to music together.
π Doing a creative project together.
π Watching a movie or television series together.
π Participating in a cause together (volunteering, helping teaching).
π Doing a low-key recreational activity together while talking.
π Making music together, even if you do not know how to play any instruments.
π Trying new foods together or baking and cooking together.
π Playing tourist in your hometown together.
π Having a spa night together.
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Manipulative or dishonest behaviour.
π Narrow-mindedness or quick judgments.
π Critical, harsh words.
π Overly-scheduled time.
π Being pressured to “be” something for others.
π Pushiness or micro-managing.
π Hypocrisy.
π Disinterest in their feelings or projects.
π Negativity and pessimism.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π Prizes own freedom and follows their own course.
π More than trying to fit in with the masses they care about living in alignment with their
own personal convictions.
π Is guided by a sturdy core of inner values and will do whatever it takes to be true to self.
π Possesses high hopes for self and refuses to settle for less than what they are really capable of.
π Needs moments to pause and emotionally come to terms with setbacks and disappointments, has the grit
and inner passion to get back on their feet again once they have had time to process.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Specialist shows high activity in brain regions T3 and T4, which process language including
diction, grammar and voice tone according to neuroscience expert Dario Nardi. He says they "rely heavily on voice
tone to hear other people’s intentions when evaluating a person’s authenticity or the morality of a situation."
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Specialist should realize that self-love is born from self-acceptance and self-awareness. And the only
way for them to attain all three is through solitude—how else can they create the space to look inside themselves?
The Specialist as another person's friend:
π The friend people go to when they do not want compassion but realness.
π They care deeply about people - so much that they are unwilling to be fake, manipulative or flattering.
π Quiet and unassuming, they will give people real advice when they need it – but in such a way that does not seem
pushy or harsh.
π They will throw in some playful humour to lighten the mood at the same time.
The Specialist's biggest complaint from their partner:
π Confusing or self-absorbed.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "They are not a virgin for a reason. I know you to be the arty-farty one."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, BETRAY this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."
10. Can it be the Investigator - INFJ?
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Organized, conscientious and firmly connected. Seeks clear meaning and understanding. Appears friendly, empathetic and diplomatic. Offset by: Can be overly idealistic and passive-aggressive.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: I know exactly why they made that rule. Makes sense.
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: A good communicator who is talented at using words to connect with others.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Contemplative.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: Kindly please go away. I am introverting.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Individual Purpose.
They believe that every individual has the potential to change the world. Nobody is insignificant or small. Nobody should be discarded, regardless of their education level, wealth or physical appearance. Often drawn towards careers in counseling, they are known for their ability to propel people towards a higher calling. They do not believe in a world where there has to winners and losers, but rather one where everyone is afforded the same opportunities to achieve their fullest potential. Their sense of purpose drives them to seek out meaning in life and to help others find their own sense of purpose. They want to make a difference in the world and will sacrifice their time and energy to help people find their calling and believe in themselves. They can be tactless and rank as the best door slammer of the 16 patterns.
General Principles to follow: Connecting with an Investigator means being honest, open-minded and curious. They crave intellectual as well as empathic data – Who are you? What do you care about? What matters to you? What thoughts tickle your imagination and make you curious? Being friendly and warm helps them to feel comfortable with you, but you will really get to know them through thought-provoking conversations and sharing feelings and values. Low-pressure activities and comforting routines can help them to relax and connect emotionally without feeling overwhelmed or anxious.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Discussing favourite books and movies.
π Listening to each other’s favourite songs.
π Enjoying calming sensory activities together like gardening, baking or bird-watching.
π Playing “The Question Game” and asking thought-provoking, deep questions.
π Taking a class together.
π Perusing a library or bookstore together.
π Volunteering for a cause together.
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Being narrow-minded or quick to judge.
π Limiting their imagination or belittling their ideas.
π Being too loud, showy or attention-seeking.
π Over-scheduling or managing their time.
π Being manipulative or dishonest.
π Being too secretive/reserved and not sharing your feelings.
π Being passive-aggressive instead of directly airing grievances.
π Being short-tempered and moody.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π Strives to develop a clear vision about how best to serve the world around them.
π When struggles strike, they aim to see the lesson that can be learned from the pain they are
dealing with.
π Has an ability to envision a life beyond the present moment which propel them forward past
hardships and keep their eyes firmly planted on their goals.
π May need some time to grapple with the pain of setbacks and failures, they are insightful
enough to see that there are new perspectives and ways of looking at the situation that can help
them gain wisdom and resilience from it.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Investigator scores higher on Achievement via Independence on the California Psychological
Inventory tool in comparison with other MBTI types. This means that the Investigator often has a strong
drive to do well and show a great amount of individual initiative, clear-thinking and intelligence.
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Investigator should realize that there is no greater gift than the gift of understanding.
The Investigator as another person's friend:
π The creative and visionary friend who will quickly show compassion and caring for others.
π They let people be themselves, opening up a safe space for them to share their heart without judgment.
π When they care about their friends, they want them to be able to open up about their inner darkness, worries,
fears, passions and joys without fear of judgment or awkward silences.
π In their quiet, insightful presence people feel free to bare their souls.
The Investigator's biggest complaint from their partner:
π Stubborn.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "Free food may contain poison. Check your social standing with them. I know that I run the risk of you door-slamming me."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, TAKE FOR GRANTED this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."
11. Can it be the Agent - INFP?
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Humungous idealist, harmonious and faithful. Observes personal and other values. Imaginative and empathetic. Offset by: Biggest resting bitch face ever.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: What was it that you said I shouldn't do again?
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: No one knows them. Their entire world is inside their mind.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Idealistic.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: Wizards only beyond this point.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Value of the Soul.
They see beyond surface-level appearances and pursuits and to the inherent value of each individual’s soul and spirit. They know there’s more to life than job promotions, fashions, money and ego-driven ambitions. Embodying their soul’s purpose is what brings meaning and happiness to their life. They are often driven to help others find their own purpose in life and see the beauty and potential in them that they may not have been able to see themselves in their La La Land.
General Principles to follow: Moving slowly with the Agent is important. They will shy away from people who seem overly pushy, nosy or inquisitive. At the same time, they crave relationships and friendships that are intimate and authentic. Giving space while at the same time being real is crucial. They connect when they see that they can trust you and you are genuine. They connect when you take off the “social mask” and express your honest thoughts and feelings.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Listening to favourite songs together.
π Making art together (music, sculpture, drawing, painting etc,.).
π Talking about your favourite books in detail.
π Watching each other’s favourite movies.
π Volunteering for a cause together.
π Finding “comfort routines” together like making tea, meeting up for breakfast,
going to the library, or other quiet, low-pressure activities.
π Going to a thrift store and finding forgotten treasures together.
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Being too nosy, clingy or meddling.
π Labelling them/making assumptions.
π Managing their time for them.
π Being tactless or inconsiderate.
π Manipulating or having ulterior motives.
π Making quick judgments about people.
π Being narrow-minded.
π Limiting their imagination.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π In the midst of challenges, they rely on inner conviction and rich creativity to see things through.
π Passion is next to none and no matter how bleak life may get they can always take solace in their
fertile imagination.
π When they are tapped into their intuition they can see creative solutions and possibilities even when the
world around them seems chaotic and out-of-control.
π Possesses convictions and dreams they want to see realized and will not let anything get in the
way of this.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Agent scores higher on on Flexibility on the California Psychological Inventory tool in comparison
with other MBTI types. This means that the Agent likes change and variety, are easily bored by routine and may
be impatient, but they also tend to be clever and imaginative.
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Agent should Director should take time for themselves. Honour their feelings, intuition and their inner voice.
Learn to trust themselves and be comfortable in their own skin.
The Agent as another person's friend:
π The friend who is a good listener.
π No matter what their friend needs to get off their chest, they are there to help them sort it out.
Friends can admit their deepest, darkest secrets or worries. They can cry. They can yell about how much life sucks.
π They know that the Agent will be there and hear them out without jumping in and interrupting with unsolicited advice.
The Agent's biggest complaint from their partner:
π Overly idealistic and hypersensitive.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "They do not understand feelings as they are probably depressed. I think you live in La La Land and are generally miserable."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, TRAP this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."
12. Can it be the Achiever - ISTP?
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Flexible, logical and organized. Adaptable; obtains inspiration in diverse ways. Calm, cool-headed and practical. Offset by: Shy yet energetic at random especially when something needs fixing. That one sporty guy at school.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: How dare you try to control me; You'll regret it.
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: A bit of a loner who likes their practical hobbies.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Pragmatic.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: WARNING: Forget the dog. Beware of owner.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Autonomy.
They are determined to discover hidden truths, pursue freedom and experience the dazzling wonder of the world around them. They do not want to be told how to do something, nor do they want rules or limits on their goals. They must have the space and freedom to pursue independence in a rational way that aligns with their principles. A world that restricts their autonomy and independence is one they will fight against with all their might. They are the type to call on if anything needs fixing.
General Principles to follow: Connecting with an Achiever may seem tricky at first because of their more reserved demeanour. But if you can look past that, many enjoy getting to know others through shared interests and recreational activities. If you want to connect with them, be sure to take an active interest in what they are learning about or tinkering with. Are they a gamer? Perhaps you could swap stories from your games or try a game together. Do they enjoy playing sport? Maybe there is a sport you could play or watch together! The key for the Achiever is to engage their senses. Do not just sit and make chit-chat for hours on end (yawn). They would rather get to know people through an activity with chatting on the side. Also, do not take yourself too seriously – they appreciate people who are down-to-earth and casual.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Do something recreational together (fishing, kayaking, Frisbee, rock climbing, etc,.).
π Play a game together.
π Cook together.
π Go to the beach, hiking or any other outdoor space.
π Play a video game together remotely.
π Watch a movie together.
π Go to a concert together.
π Play cards and make conversation at the same time.
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Being too nosy or meddling.
π Scheduling their time for them.
π Making too many demands on their time.
π Being uptight or too formal.
π Having no sense of humour.
π Being hypersensitive.
π Having no sense of adventure.
π Doing things by the book too much.
π Lack of interest in knowledge or learning.
π Manipulative or cloying behaviour.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π While some people freak out at the slightest problem, they are someone who enjoys the challenge of solving a
new challenge (at least, if it is concrete).
π Their analytical, pragmatic perspective keeps them steady in tenuous situations where others might
lose their grip.
π Are always focussed on what is around them and what can be done with it; how they can use
their environment to optimize their current situation.
π Are realistic enough to know that your chances are low at succeeding at something the first time
they try it. They know that they need to keep trying if they want to see results.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Achiever is skilled at useful problem solving, trying out various angles and combining and adapting
various techniques to fit a situation according to neuroscience expert Dario Nardi. They "look for and use
leverage points to manage."
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Achiever shouls realize that assumptions are the mother of all fcuk ups. Do not make assumptions and
always test each hypothesis.
The Achiever as another person's friend:
π The friend who has fairness as the name of their game.
π They are the person your friends go to when they want an unbiased opinion and clear, logical solutions.
π They care about speaking the truth and making sure everyone is treated equally and with the respect of honesty.
π Quiet and reserved, people may underestimate them – but their friends know they can count on them for factual, pragmatic wisdom.
The Achiever's biggest complaint from their partner:
π Too aloof and distant.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "Watch your personal items. They might spontaneously reverse-engineer them. I know you have a bad temper, but will
have a go at fixing absolutely anything."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, USE this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."
13. Can it be the Practitioner - ISFJ?
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Too focussed on organisation ahead of improving. Picks up on needs, emotions and responsibilities. Offset by: Dreadfully passive-aggressive especially due to too much focus on organization and when there is conflict to be sorted out or any criticism of them or their family.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: I'll help enforce the rules if you'd like me to.
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: Quietly organised, caring, nice, calming, helpful but very easily influenced.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Loyal.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Security.
They consider it their duty to protect and care for those they love. They have a heart for the struggling people of the world and will often do whatever it takes to provide a safe, stable environment for people who need them. They may find themselves taking on many roles or responsibilities in order to tend to the well-being of their children, communities and loved ones. They are often attracted to careers in the healthcare field or as educators because they want to help people live fulfilling, secure, tranquil lives. Accordingly, they are hopeless leaders and managers but make excellent employees as followers.
General Principles to follow: Connecting with a Practitioner starts with honesty and consistency. Show that you are someone they can trust by being authentic and living up to your commitments. Give them personal space, do not push or pressure them and find low-key activities to do together. Some friendly small talk can help them get comfortable with you, paving the way for more in-depth and intimate discussion. Smile often, have a sense of humour and show up on time to scheduled outings. Respect their time while being attentive and understanding. These are all ways to put them at ease and connect over shared activities.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Cracking friendly jokes.
π Smiling and exuding warmth and friendliness.
π Being tactful and polite.
π Starting a conversation with small talk and veering into deeper discussion with time.
π Taking a class together.
π Discussing favourite books and movies.
π Listening to each other’s favourite songs.
π Doing low-key sensory activities together like gardening, hiking, baking or bird watching.
π Spending time in nature together.
π Asking about their interests and listening and asking questions.
π Doing a service project together (cleaning the beach or park, helping at an animal shelter, etc,.)
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Being insensitive or tactless.
π Being too quiet/reserved and making them do the conversational heavy-lifting.
π Being hypersensitive/too quick to offend.
π Asking deeply personal questions too quickly.
π Belittling their interests.
π Being late.
π Being too loud, showy or attention-seeking.
π Over-scheduling their time.
π Calling them “too sensitive” or dismissing their feelings.
π Being secretive/withholding.
π Irresponsibility.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π "Slow and steady wins the race" is probably something they remind themselves of on a regular basis.
π Knows that steady, methodical dedication will get them further than rushing around trying to win at life
in a hurry.
π Their focus on sustainability and caution allows them to avoid many of the roadblocks that others encounter
on their way to their goals.
π Are a thorough, responsible individual and they know that success requires time and patience.
π A steady, long-term mindset gives them the strength to keep going when many others might burn out.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Practitioner shows moderate to high activity in brain region T6. This area is focussed on considering
the future and mapping out actions ahead of time.
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Practitioner should realize that it is the small moments that give life magic. Do not rush through life,
take the time to experience the little things deep within their soul.
The Practitioner as another person's friend:
π The friend whose gentleness knows no bounds.
They show respect for their quirks and passions, challenging any actions that seem hurtful or insensitive.
Their loyalty and thoughtfulness in the details of people’s lives gives them a sense of warmth and comfort.
They are the one who remembers their friend’s favourite sweets and shows up with a bag when life gets hard.
They are the one who is the shoulder to cry on during the challenges that life inevitably brings.
The Practitioner's biggest complaint from their partner:
π Too cautious or traditional. Cannot be persuaded to try new things or take adventurous leaps.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "Beware of their smile. It could be to gain trust and turn it into an elaborate revenge prank. I have
seen the passive-aggression come out of you when you are held to account. I think you can be expendible, especially
as a manager or leader."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, NEGLECT this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."
14. Can it be the Objective Thinker - ISTJ?
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Practical, traditional and dependable. Obtains their success by being responsible. Has a focus on organizing, deciding and coming up with objective solutions to problems. Offset by: They like to get things over and done with but can be stubborn, inflexible and dogmatic.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: I'm going to do it because they said I should.
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: Steady and reliable. Can be surprisingly curious. Often very helpful and funny.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Responsible.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: Do not disturb. Really, do not disturb.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Loyalty.
They believe in standing up for what they believe in and upholding the values that they trust. They will stay committed to people and projects they care about for a lifetime, if need be. Having a sense of honour and duty toward the greater good is crucial to them. Knowing the difference between right and wrong and fulfilling one’s responsibilities is of the highest priority to them. If they promise to do something, you can count on them to keep their word (unless they are at an unhealthy level of maturity - e.g. denial, projection and dissociation. Can play ego-defensive survival games when they feel insecure, uncertain or at risk of appearing incompetent. During this phase they can become nagging, gloomy and complaining. If stressed, they may even feel physical symptoms such as headaches, irritable bowel syndrome causing depression or nausea). Can be rigid.
General Principles to follow: Connecting with the Objective Thinker means proving yourself honest, dependable and loyal. These types do not open up readily with people until trust has been established. Creating that bond of trust comes from sharing experiences together. Actions speak louder than words to this pattern. This means making plans together and being there on time every time. It means putting your phone down when you are together and really listening to what they have to say. It means treating people considerately even when it is difficult. It also means being authentic and honest, sometimes about vulnerable things. When it comes to activities, they enjoy discussing their interests and hobbies in-depth with people who are interested. You can also connect with them by discussing favourite books, perusing a library together or doing something recreational.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Take an interest in their work, career or hobbies.
π Discuss your favourite books and/or movies.
π Do a quiet recreational activity together (fishing, hiking, boating, etc,.).
π Go antique hunting or thrift store shopping to see what interesting things you can find.
π Go geocaching together!
π Have a picnic and watch the sunrise together.
π Bake or cook something together.
π Spend time in nature together and notice the details.
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Emotional over-reactions.
π Dishonesty or manipulation.
π Impracticality.
π Prying too much early on in the friendship/relationship.
π Dismissing/invalidating their experiences.
π Being late to a planned meeting.
π Being wishy-washy or undependable.
π Being inconsiderate or insensitive to others.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π Has a strong sense of responsibility and are capable of working with sustained energy to accomplish
thei goals.
π 'Steadfast' would be a word that many would use to describe them.
π Knows that methodical, steady progress will get them further than working in short bursts that fizzle
out quickly.
π When they have finished up their to-do list, they know how to relax and rejuvenate with their favourite
hobbies and routines.
π This balance of hard work and quiet refreshment keeps them going when others would burn out.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Objective Thinker scores higher on Self-Control on the California Psychological Inventory tool
compared with other MBTI types. This means that the Objective Thinker is skilled at controlling their emotions
and temper and suppressing hostile feelings. They also pride themselves on self-discipline.
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Objective Thinker should learn from those who have gone before them and find a way to streamline
their teachings.
The Objective Thinker as another person's friend:
π The friend who is calm, reasonable and sensible who can be counted on for an unbiased perspective on a situation.
π Their logical, analytical mind is revered when people feel overwhelmed by life.
π They help people streamline their plans, sort out conflict with rational solutions and do the responsible thing.
π They encourage people to plan ahead, think cautiously and reason sensibly.
The Objective Thinker's biggest complaint from their partner:
π Too reserved and serious. May have difficulty handling emotional issues.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "They will work harder than you do. I think they go way better when they loosen up a bit."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, MISLEAD this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."
15. Can it be the Perfectionist - INTP?
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Abstract, analytical and elegant. Focussed on what is of interest to them only. Driven towards mastery by being curious about concepts and groundbreaking ideas. Offset by: All they talk about is their interests and cannot do any practical tasks.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: I've devised a plan to override the rules... for fun.
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: Watches and analyses. Does not express it much.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Conceptual.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: ALERT: Video game in progress. Unauthorized entry will be eliminated.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Truth.
They are driven to understand truth and the nature of reality. Historically speaking, they are the types of people who would sacrifice their lives to defend truth – even if it went against public opinion, tradition or laws. They enjoy exploring ideas, theories and possibilities that have yet to be discovered. They live in the world of theoretical possibilities and want to know everything about how things work from the ground up. They care little for surface knowledge or appearances and instead focus on what aligns with their logical principles. Never believe they are good at anything practical.
General Principles to follow: Connecting with the Perfectionist means being willing to start with the head before the heart on most occasions. These types enjoy exploring ideas, testing theories and learning how the world works. Connecting can be as simple as watching a TED Talk together or as fun as creating personalized song playlists for each other. While they may seem reserved and analytical, they also crave warm, easy-going connections. People who exude friendliness and authenticity are deeply special to them. Sometimes they just are not given a chance because people shy away from their more serious, introverted demeanor. Forming a bond means reaching across the silence to show them you actually care about what goes on in their mind.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Peruse a library together.
π Take a class together.
π Listen to each other’s favourite songs or watch each other’s favourite movies.
π Ask them how something works and get into the details together.
π Drive somewhere you have never been before.
π Be patient when they are thinking of a response to a question.
π Be comfortable with silence – realize it is not a sign of disinterest.
π Make them laugh and engage with them in a friendly way.
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Manipulativeness or dishonesty.
π Narrow-mindedness.
π Hyper-sensitive emotional reactions.
π Poor listening skills.
π Being pushy or overbearing.
π Not being able to discuss abstract or theoretical matters.
π Over-scheduling their time.
π Overwhelming them with text messages early in the friendship/relationship.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π Has a skill at adapting to unexpected situations.
π While other patterns (particularly the Judging types) freak out when things unexpectedly change,
they tend to roll with the punches and look for new opportunities.
π They are tough-minded and can troubleshoot even in the midst of tumultuous situations.
π Knows how to put their feelings aside and look at the facts and find outside-the-box solutions.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Perfectionist shows a lot of brain activity in Region P4 of their brain. This part of the brain
helps the Perfectionist to "holistically weigh numerous pros and cons of many uncertain or risky factors or
options at once to arrive at a single result" according to neuroscience expert Dario Nardi.
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Perfectionist should realize that they are a student of life, for life. Their one objective is to keep learning,
evolving and transforming their mind.
The Perfectionist as another person's friend:
π The friend who is honest, deep and insightful.
π When a friend has a problem, they will help them sort out the components of the problem and view it from a new angle.
π They are neither jealous, manipulative or controlling.
π If they have 100 followers on Twitter (unlilely anyway) and your friend has 200,000, they are not going to care or get competitive about it.
π They have a “live and let live” mentality unless someone is fooling themselves with inaccurate thinking.
π They help people to see new possibilities they have not thought of before. And they do this without being pushy or playing phony mind-games.
The Perfectionist's biggest complaint from their partner:
π Cannot handle emotion. Too distant or oblivious.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "Their brain could spontaneously explode from knowledge. At no time, now or in the future, would I ask you to do anything practical."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, PLAY GAMES WITH this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."
16. Can it be the Enhancer - INTJ?
A Researched Summary, by Senior Consultant Urich Hunt™, for this pattern: Original; independent; driven. Calm exterior permits development of internal ideas. Visionary strategists who focus on mastery, competence and analysis. Offset by: Tries to seem more intellectually superior to everyone else and, annoyingly, they usually are.
A Ten Word Summary, by Emeritus Professor Ridley Kive™, for this pattern: I'm not going to do it and they won't know.
An alternate Summary, by Mike Hunt™, for this pattern: Seems arrogant and pretentious but is usually very intelligent. Capable of decent conversation on meaningful subjects only.
The MOST™ for this pattern: Independent.
The SIGN ON THEIR DOOR™ for this pattern: Do not even think about knocking or entering. History is being made.
Maxi Value Belief™ for this pattern: Understanding.
For them, nothing is worse than limits imposed upon the mind. A life without questions, mysteries and the freedom to pursue truth is not a life worth living. They see themselves as the detectives of the world. They are always trying to see how things connect, to understand the “why’s” of the universe and peel back the layers of complexity to get to the heart of the matter. They are driven by an insatiable curiosity and desire to understand the truths that others often take for granted or ignore. To them, there is no greater joy than understanding something that others have never grasped and see the improved outcomes. They have few close friends, can appear cold and conduct a perpetual war on mediocrity. They are masters at moving on. The rank second as a door slammer behind the Investigator.
General Principles to follow: Connecting with the Enhancer often starts in the mind before it starts in the heart. This pattern shies away from rapid-fire questioning or people who seem overly intrusive or nosy. They enjoy discussing ideas, theories and insights more than they enjoy chit-chat or small talk. Sometimes they also connect over shared causes or recreational activities. They can enjoy tapping into their Extraverted Sensing side with others through playing games, going to concerts or doing a physical activity such as kayaking or fishing (depending on the Enhancer of course.
Activities That Encourage Connection:
π Discussing your favourite books.
π Listening to each other’s favourite songs.
π Taking a class together.
π Playing strategy games together.
π Joining a book club together.
π Doing a recreational activity together (kayaking, fishing, sports, table tennis, etc.).
π If you are already friends or in a relationship, do something like start a garden and tend
to it together.
π Wander nature together.
π Knowing that they work best alone some of the time.
π Knowing that they can subtly notice patterns and make better decisions.
π Knowing they they can instantly see through people's bulltish.
π Knowing that their mind easily fantasizes them with thoughts about their day or a conversation in detail,
while they privately laugh at themselves amazingly and sometimes embarrassingly.
π Knowing that the people who are most closest to them are a best fit because they have been thoroughly analysed.
π Knowing that their emotions do not ever get the best of them.
π Before making or executing plans, they have been given extensive thought.
π Realizint that they do not need to spend a good chunk of their time with people to 'feel better'.
Unlike the extraverts - Patterns 1-8.
π Knowing that they are extremely connected to their surroundings and also exercise control over them.
Activities That Discourage Connection:
π Being too nosey, clingy or meddling.
π Scheduling their time for them.
π Making decisions for them.
π Appearing to know 'what is right for them'. Such as the interfering aunt (Persuader).
π Surprising them unexpectedly.
π Being hypersensitive.
π Manipulating or having ulterior motives.
π Dwelling on small-talk excessively or at all.
π Showing little interest in theories or abstract ideas.
π Being closed-minded.
π Lack of interest in personal growth.
Distinct Factor Set A - Propensity to Never Give Up:
π Has the ability to step back during struggles and apply logic and insight to the situation.
π Is a visionary with great ambition and determination to succeed.
π Knows how to set emotional turmoil aside and take charge, problem-solve and come up with innovative
strategies to overcome difficulties.
π Is also stubborn. Is going to accomplish their goals even if it kills them.
π Needs not to forget to take time to understand own emotions and stress-levels after a particularly
challenging moment has passed.
Distinct Factor Set B - Who would have thought?:
π Your Enhancer scores higher on Responsibility on the California Psychological Inventory tool
in comparison with other MBTI types. This means that the Enhancer tends to be reliable, ethically perceptive
and serious about their duties and obligations.
Distinct Factor Set C - Their aha moment™:
π Your Enhancer should realize that when they play the quick game the wins are small. It is far better to play the
long game. They should be impatient with their actions, but be patient with their results.
The Enhancer as another person's friend:
π The friend who is absolutetly and undeniably the hardest person to get to know.
π They look out for the long-range plans of their friends.
π While they may seem quiet and reserved, they will go above and beyond to protect the future of the people they care about.
π Their creative insights and rational way of thinking helps them to give constructive feedback, advice and strategic wisdom to
the people around them.
The Enhancer's biggest complaint from their partner:
π Too stoic or unreadable, with this being interpreted as being insensitive or cold.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ - What to watch out for and be prepared for:
π "Their self-esteem is in jeopardy. They should be (and are) very wary of roasts. I know that you only need five friends and are the
master of the door-slam - making others Nothinged™. That is, may as well never have ever existed. Even if they were an enemy.
I would not fcuk with you, in any way whatsoever, if I wanted to remain one of the five."
π "Never, ever, as long as your ass points to the Earth's surface, CONTROL this pattern.
Warnings from Mike Hunt™ are at the forefront."